Provocative article from last Friday's Wall Street Journal (don't judge!) entitled "The Perils of Wanna Be Christianity" is worth your while to read. It's about how young people in the church are rejecting what older people are implementing to try to be "culturally relevant" to younger generations.
Here's a quote to have a cup o' joe and mull over this morning:
"But are these gimmicks really going to bring young people back to church? Is this what people really come to church for? Maybe sex sermons and indie- rock worship music do help in getting people in the door, and maybe even in winning new converts. But what sort of Christianity are they being converted to?
In his book, "The Courage to Be Protestant," David Wells writes:"The born-again, marketing church has calculated that unless it makes deep, serious cultural adaptations, it will go out of business, especially with the younger generations. What it has not considered carefully enough is that it may well be putting itself out of business with God.
"And the further irony," he adds, "is that the younger generations who are less impressed by whiz-bang technology, who often see through what is slick and glitzy, and who have been on the receiving end of enough marketing to nauseate them, are as likely to walk away from these oh-so-relevant churches as to walk into them."
If the evangelical Christian leadership thinks that "cool Christianity" is a sustainable path forward, they are severely mistaken. As a twentysomething, I can say with confidence that when it comes to church, we don't want cool as much as we want real.
If we are interested in Christianity in any sort of serious way, it is not because it's easy or trendy or popular. It's because Jesus himself is appealing, and what he says rings true. It's because the world we inhabit is utterly phony, ephemeral, narcissistic, image-obsessed and sex-drenched—and we want an alternative. It's not because we want more of the same."
Love the words "we don't want cool as much as we want real." The problem is that when "real" hits the equation, most folks begin to get VERY uncomfortable. It's easier to try to be cool, right?
Have at it, patrons!
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"It's because the world we inhabit is utterly phony, ephemeral, narcissistic, image-obsessed and sex-drenched—and we want an alternative. It's not because we want more of the same."...talk about hitting the nail on the head.
I think the second I "try" to be cool is the moment I turn into a dork. Dorks by nature are cool, dorks by effort are not real.
So does human nature itself generally delete the "real"?
Love this. It seems to me that so much of the "trying to be cool" comes from a place of fear or anxiousness rather than a heart that is seeking to share who God is with others. I think we think we are sharing but it is inevitable that our own sin nature creeps in. I agree that when "real" comes into play it can be uncomfortable but serving God is not about comfort, it's about obedience.
This is actually something I struggle with. We belong to a open but generally typical Catholic church. Our family, children included, attends regularly and is active in youth ministry and Sunday school. In our town, there is a mega-church that is the hipness thing in hipville. You name it, they've got it....and a large chunk of the families in our circle. While I sometimes covet the energy and activity in the big church, I usually remember that what I love about our church is the very realness of it - not perfect, for sure - but real.
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I'd like to see a study done of those that return to the church - knowing it is the right thing - after they go through this "teen-tween cool" phase.
As much of the issue with losing these kids is the fact that for the first time in their life, their parents aren't forcing them to get up on Sunday morning.
I think that you need to build a good base of regular church and Sunday School attendance for your children and let them take it from there. You can't lead them to Christ, after all. It's their decision and their relationship.
If the only reason to attend church is for the "wow" factor, you'll find even more drop-offs, since the base faith will be less likely to take hold.
Real tends to get real uncomfortable real quick & isn't nearly as safe as being cool, but the long-term payoff is always worth it. The Bible is dead-on when it says the truth (which is always real) shall make you free.
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